The Best Man's Speech

The best man replies on behalf of the bridesmaids. His speech should be light-hearted and amusing, and from this point there should be no reference to emotional references or serious topics.

In his speech he should:

• congratulate the bride and groom
• thank the groom on behalf of the bridesmaids for the good wishes and gifts they received
• thank anyone who has been of particular assistance to him
• thank anyone the bride has asked him to acknowledge on her behalf

His speech may include funny stories from the groom's past but should not under any circumstances cause embarrassment or offence to anyone. He should also mention close family members or friends who are unable to attend the wedding.

He finishes his speech with a toast to the bride and groom's future happiness before reading out any telegrams, cards or e-mails from absent guests. If there are too many, he could just read out the senders names.

He will then announce the cutting of the cake (if this didn't take place before the speeches).

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